Needing medical help to conceive can feel like a crisis, often suffered in secrecy. Many usual channels of support may seem unavailable; friends seem to be having babies with ease, parents are wishing to become grandparents; the workplace may not be sympathetic to the frequent absences you will encounter; you and your partner may be finding the stress and anxiety interfere with your usual ways of relating to and supporting each other; sex may have become a timed chore. You may both have already gone through tests and investigations that intrude into the most private and intimate areas of your bodies and your lives. You may have spent hours, weeks or years waiting.
Taking some private time and space with a trained counsellor is not about ‘not coping’. It is an opportunity to look in the broadest sense at the issues in your lives that have been raised because of the situation you are now facing. You may want to air the anger, grief, desperation, isolation and envy, so these feelings do not get bottled up and then come out in other areas of your life that would not be appropriate or helpful. It is sometimes much easier and feels safer if there is an understanding third party there with you. You might also want to share the excitement, joy and ambivalence, fears and relief of successful treatment.
Counselling is friendly, personal and confidential. It is not being told what to do, feel or think. You are not being judged or assessed. You are taking an active role in a process that so often can leave you feeling frustratingly inactive.
We have 2 dedicated counsellors on our panel. Counselling is mandatory for those having treatment with donated gametes/embryos.
Claude has worked as a fertility counsellor since 1997 and is an accredited member of the British Infertility Counselling Association (AMBICA) and an accredited member of the British Association for Counsellingand Psychotherapy MBACP (accred). Claude also offers counselling in French and in Spanish. To support her work, Claude has also studied pre and post adoption issues and qualified with the Post Adoption Centre. She works from home in Camden, located a short walk from Kings Cross, St Pancras and Euston Stations. After your free sessions, if you decide you would like more sessions with her check with the BICA website for costs.
Claude h: +44(0)2073 883666 e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org
Carmel has a clinical background (over 25 years in the NHS) and, for almost 20 years she has practised as a Specialist Counsellor/Psychotherapist, working with individuals and couples impacted by fertility issues, or pregnancy problems, or in need of post natal support. She holds a Master’s degree in Counselling and Psychotherapy and she is a registered and accredited member of the UK Council of Psychotherapists. (UKCP). She is also a qualified clinical supervisor.
Her current practice is based at UCLH’s Fertility Unit and, additionally, since 2013 she joined our clinic at CRGH. She is passionate about supporting people to navigate the challenges faced by fertility problems and/or their pregnancies. Client feedback reveals that one session can make a difference. Given the time pressures faced nowadays, she has made the service more accessible by offering telephone, Skype, Whatsapp and FaceTime Consultations.
If you would welcome some support, please do not hesitate to contact her directly for a complementary session on:
Carmel m: +44(0)7751737788 e-mail: email@example.com
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